Questions

We have been asked many questions after passing on the exciting news that we are adopting a little boy from Korea ... "Why did you decide to adopt?";"Why did you choose Korea?"; "How does the process work?"; "Why does it take so long?" ; "How could you possibly get a boy, aren't more girls available?"; "How old are the babies?"; "Can you really afford to do something like that?"

For all the other above questions, I'm going to start by posting two links.

These links will help answer some of those questions for now.

New York Times Article
Korean Adoption

I do also intend to get all these questions answered myself in my own words, over time. I am far from a "good blogger" but, I will do my best to get this all out there and explained as times goes on. Thanks to all of you who have been so wonderful to us through all our of experiences in trying to add to our family. It is very comforting to now feel at ease and certain of what the next steps are. Although, there are never true "certainties" with adoption. We know the process is in place and we are slowly moving along. Yes, the wait is going to be long but, if you take a look at the big picture and the blessing at the end; the wait is really okay.

Fall 2009

G started school this year right after labor day. She is in the pre-k academy at her school. The class meets 5 half days a week. So, she is gone M-F from noon until 2:45 (believe me those few hours go very fast). She LOVES Loves Loves school and is disappointed when Saturday rolls around. I am so happy for her but at the same time miss my little little girl.
G's first day of Pre-K.


Back to school also means back to activities. G is taking dance again....which is good cuz the little thing LOVES to dance, just about as much as she loves school. It's a great way to burn off some of that extra energy when the cold sets in and she can't be running around outside. We switched studios this year but, love our choice. It's much closer to home and there are quite a few of Gracie's friends from school there with her.


First day of ballet/tap for the 09-10 year....such a sweet little princess.

This past weekend my cousin D got married. We had the best time at the wedding and reception. We love hanging out with family. D was a beautiful bride and her new hubby is such a sweetheart. We are very happy for them and wish them the best!!!

Some thoughts on Expanding our Family

I don't know what it is that has made me so ansy lately but, I am ready for the adoption process to move along. I know we are pretty far off, as our HS has not been completed yet but, I'm ready for a next step . I'm guessing this is because I am truly amazed at all the blogs and information out there pertaining to Korean adoption. The past few nights, I have not stopped reading and following other family's journeys through the process. There is so much to look forward to. However, I feel there is so much more information I need to prepare myself with.....what we as a family can expect, what this precious little boy will be feeling when his world is turned upside down, how to help our little G understand what is happening, and help our friends and family feel the same excitement we do. I know I'm probably jumping the gun on all this but, that's what I do. :) Our in-person Parent adoption training is scheduled for November. I think this might help us answer some questions and knowing that it will give us the opportunity to meet other families who are at the same point in the process as us is exciting. For now my personal next step is to start learning more about Korea and the Korean culture.

More to add...

to our busy Summer list.

We were invited by our best buddies, the B family, to come visit them in Houston and go to the Astros annual Gala.....Black Ties and Baseball Caps. The event was held on the Astros field and was organized to raise money for a local women's shelter. We had the most amazing time with the best of friends. I've posted some pictures below. In addition to the Gala, we went to the Houston Aquarium and got to see T pitch at two of the Ball games. We also got to spend some time on the field watching fireworks and watching the kids run around. We are so thankful to the Byrdaks for inviting us and giving us the opportunity to make such great memories.

August has been a month of ups and downs. On August 6th, we lost one of our close family friend's, dear Grandpa B. We will miss him dearly and are thankful for the time we were able to spend with him. He had such a gift for making each of us feel special especially, our princess G. Rest in Peace, Grandpa B. It was interesteting to watch G try and "understand" where Grandpa Bob is and what dying means. We are lucky that she is so close to the B kids (especially M). I think in their own 4/5 year old minds, they helped each other somewhat understand it better.

This past weekend we hosted a baby shower for M, A and Baby S. I think it was a pretty big success and am posting a few pics from that day too.

Some Pics to go with the last Post

LAKE HOUSE AND STARVED ROCK

Summer

Summer is going by way too fast (doesn't it always) and we are making to make the most of it and squeezing as much in as we can before Gracie heads back to school. So far we have...
***Rented a Lake House** The week of June 21st we rented a lake house in Paw Paw, MI on 3 mile lake. KJ was a little swamped with work so we invited the Bartecki's up to enjoy the house with us for the beginning part of the week. This was so much fun for all of us. I got to hang out with one of my closest friends while the kids played in the water. We couldn't have asked for better swimming weather either. Although, this summer has not been very hot, we were in MI during the hottest week of the summer so far (heat indexes close to 100). KJ, Mark, Amber and Neena came up to stay with us for the latter part of the week. It was a funfilled week of swimming, BBQing and relaxing. We are hoping we can do it again next year. It was such a good time.
***Went to the Zoo***
***Spent an afternoon at the Water Park***
***Spent some time in Baba and Grandma's Motorhome*** Well this wasn't all of us. Gracie went to spend 3 days in the Motor home in South Haven, MI with her gparents. She loved it and didn't want to leave. My favorite quote of those few days was "when are we gonna drive this thing? I want to see what it feels like to drive a house"
***Went (me) to Rascal Flatts at Wrigley with some girlfriends***
***Went to the Symphony at Millenium Park*** Again, this wasn't all us. Uncle Mark and Aunt Amber took Gracie and of course she loved it. Music and dancing....right up her alley. My favorite quote from that night was "How does the baby go pee in Amber's Belly?" Ahhh the mind of a 4 year old....gotta love it.
***Listened to the Billy Joel/Elton John concert from a rooftop on Sheffield***
***Had our individual meetings with Lifelink***

More to come....

First Dance Recital

Our little lady had her first dance recital on June 7th. She did such a good job. She was enrolled at the The Dance Workshop this year and had her recital at the Rialto in Joliet. She loved dance and loved her class. The class was a combo ballet/tap class but, her recital number was only to ballet ....Broadway Baby. She loved being the star that day and showing off everything she learned to her family....such a big girl!!!!